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22 Things That Aren’t Actually Problems For Vegetarians

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Recently, there was a listicle posted on Cosmopolitan's blog (and reposted to Yahoo! Shine) that made me and my co-workers roll our eyes. It's entitled, 22 Problems Only Vegetarians Understand,” though “22 possibly concocted non-issues” would probably be a more fitting title. I have been flip flopping between vegetarianism and more flexible diets for about 10 years now, and I never experienced any of the “problems” the author lists–if I did, I never viewed them as problems. Before I break down each of the 22 alleged problems, I need to type for a second about how we have to stop pretending that being a vegetarian makes one a special snowflake. 

Perhaps it's because I grew up in Los Angeles, went to a liberal art school for punks and hippies, and live in Brooklyn currently, but in my experience vegetarianism is not a rare choice. Eschewing meat such a prevalent restriction that it's hardly noticeable unless they make a big deal out of it. Even then, hardly anyone bats an eyelash because it's so freaking common. If someone makes a big deal about anyone else's diet, they are being an asshole and should be brushed off as such. 

Now, let's go these alleged vegetarian problems and why they aren't even real:

1. Your carnivore friends are more likely than you to loudly announce your vegetarian status to the waiter/person handing out free samples at Costco. A simple “no thank you” will get the job done. Plus, my face won't turn bright red!

The author writes carnivores as if her non-veg friends feast solely on animal flesh. If her friends are out to humiliate her on their frequent trips to Costco with fresh animal blood and disdain sloppily dripping out of their mouths, I suggest the problem is that she has shitty friends and not that carnivores have made a habit of publicly shaming vegetarians. Further, if a loud proclamation of your vegetarianism is embarrassing, you might be the one who has an issue with it, not those murderer carnivores you pal around with.

2. You get tired of being lectured about protein and iron by people who have half their arm inside a family-size bag of Doritos. Seriously? Do you even know what a vegetable looks like?

I agree that it's shitty when people act like their diet is superior to yours and judge you for your choices. People who eat Doritos aren't too stupid to know what vegetables are, just like you're not too stupid to know about protein and iron.

3. Coworkers that you eat lunch with feel the need to defend themselves. That's cool that you only eat chicken on Mondays, Wednesdays, and on federal holidays. Can we get back to dissecting every detail of Beyonce's Grammy performance?

They should write passive aggressive listicles for Cosmo instead. Maybe your coworkers are defending themselves because you keep lording it over them that you're a vegetarian and they're trying to relate to you? I don't know. Sorry that it bothers vegetarians when other people talk about their diets, I guess.

4. Everyone assumes that you love yoga, kale, and accent braids. OK, GUILTY. But I also love whiskey and binge watching The Sopranos.

I find it hard to believe that this person is troubled by the assumption that they're healthy and it gives me second hand embarrassment that they feel the need to qualify themselves by proudly declaring their love of hard alcohol and HBO.

5. People you just met harass you about your reason for being vegetarian. Do you really want to have a GROSS debate in the middle of Zara?

Why does any stranger at Zara know anything about your eating habits in the first place? Who cares what someone at Zara thinks?

6. Every time you groom yourself, there is an internal battle about switching to all animal-cruelty-free products. Those poor little bunnies – damn, my hair is SO SOFT. OK, I will change after this bottle runs out.

This implies that unless you are a vegetarian you do not struggle with the ethics of animal treatment. Not true.

7. Your S.O. will make a big deal about picking out a restaurant every time. The consideration is heartwarming, but you inform them that you would rather not be treated like a freak. Besides, you always manage to find something on the menu. “I'm, like, super chill.”

Everyone has trouble picking restaurants with their “S.O.” EVERYONE.

8. After making that self-rightous claim, you will ultimately end up at a restaurant that has NOTHING you can eat. Um, can we get some more bread over here?

Somehow vegans, people with celiac's disease and those who keep kosher manage to find things to eat at restaurants without an issue.

9. You will be confronted by your carnivore friends about wearing leather. Explaining that it's not real leather, or that you purchased it second hand, doesn't seem to satisfy them.

Those foul carnivores with the bloody teeth again, they're insatiable when it comes to shaming. Maybe the author should give fewer fucks about what their friends think of them and their personal hypocrisy. Just say you don't care enough about animals to forego leather and flip those carnivores the double bird from behind your back on your way to find better friends.

10. Everyone under the sun has an opinion about your body type. Oh, you thought vegetarians were all ballerina-type waifs? Sorry to disappoint you, new boyfriend of my friend from college who I only saw on the street by chance. I happen to like what I have goin' on here.

If you're a human woman on the Earth, everyone under the sun has an opinion about your body type regardless of your meat consumption habits.

11. All family gatherings, especially Thanksgiving, are a nightmare. No celebrating for you, young lady! You will experience most items on this list on rotate for the entire day.

It's not a celebration unless your personal needs are specifically catered to!

12. Being the only one who responds to the post-script on a dinner party invitation asking if anyone has food restrictions. Token Pain in the Ass.

You're probably not the only vegetarian going to the dinner party or the only person with dietary restrictions. Someone might even have an allergy or something they didn't impose on themselves.

13. Vegetarian cookbooks rarely have color photographs. Zzzzz. Whatever, I'll just go to tastespotting.com. Drooling now.

Well, now I'm convinced. Being a vegetarian seems like a hard knock life.

14. On Jan. 1, at least one of your friends will “go-veg” to lose weight or “just to see if I can do it.”

Godforbid people eat what they want with impunity. Why support your friend on their endeavor when you can hypocritically judge them instead?

15. Other vegetarians are miffed to find out that you are dating a carnivore. Oh he's handsome and funny and treats like the goddess that you are, but he eats meat? You poor thing.

Who cares what other vegetarians think? Let it roll of your back.

16. Loser dudes will take it as a challenge to be the one to break you. Is this a male primal instinct thing? It's super creepy!

Get away from loser dudes who try to control you.

17. Vegetarian guys think you automatically want to date them. Thanks for the drink. No, it's OK, I'll call YOU. So soon. Miss you already.

I'll be fair: this one must be annoying.

18. When an ASPC ad comes on, everyone in the room looks at you like it's all your fault. “In the arms of an angellll” *crying*

This has literally never happened once to anyone. Everyone hates those commercials and no one blames anyone but the ASPCA and Sarah McLachlan for their existence.

19. You get asked about what you will feed your children, regardless of whether you have expressed interest in having kids. Yes, I plan on letting Hans make his own choice at age 12, when I finally let him out of his plastic bubble. I've also picked out his outfit for his first day of school.

Gag. Not an actual problem.

20. You eventually learn the truth about Jello and marshmallows. But what will I put in my hot cocoa? 🙁

I heard smugness foams nicely when melted in hot cocoa.

21. You get confused with vegans and pescatarians constantly. Cheese? Honey? Fish? Ice cream?

Those stupid idiots not knowing the specifics of your particular diet and trying to clarify are so rude.

22. People will ask you about your feelings towards the smell of bacon. Yes, it smells delicious to me too, okay?

I know, it's really annoying when people ask your opinion. It's just the worst. The nerve!

This person seems seriously preoccupied by what other people think of them and their choices. I truly hope that they become more comfortable with their decisions and stop sweating the small stuff. Caring about what other people think of your diet is no way to live.

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