Think you get everything you want when you're a celeb? Not so! Nicole Richie and Joel Madden put down an offer on a home in a SoCal gated community, but they were shut down by their prospective neighbors, who were concerned about the paparazzi invading their 'hood. Oh snap! "Nicole was livid because she loved the house," an insider tells Us Weekly. "She thinks it's a BS reason, but she couldn't fight it." Looks like the lovebirds will have to make their nest elsewhere…