So in all the Britney-Paris hubbub, we totally forgot about Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillippe's divorce. (How silly of us!) So here's an update: Friends of the couple tell In Touch that Reese and Ryan are on speaking terms -- they chat about the kids a few times a week. "She's being civil to him," a friend says, "but she's built walls." But don't count on a hot Hollywood hookup from the Oscar winner. "[Dating] is a million miles away from her thoughts," a pal reports. Reese even told the mag herself that she's feeling pretty good these days. "I'm doing fine," Reese said. "I'm getting out a little more now. You'll be seeing more of me." We hate to break it to her, but without moving on with another hot actor or making repeat appearances at Hyde, it's pretty unlikely that anyone will really notice her reemergence.