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"Is it too late to tell my BGF that I like him?"

You Said:
"I've known my best guy friend, Josh, since we were in diapers. When we first got to high school I noticed that he was acting weirdly, so I asked him the deal. He told me he had a crush on me, but I only liked him as a friend, so things went back to normal. Well now we’re in the 10th grade, and I think I have a crush on him! Problem: he has a girlfriend. What should I do?"

We Say:
We don’t think you truly have a crush on your BGF. Harsh, we know, sorry. It just seems a little convenient that your guy pal gets a girlfriend, and a crush suddenly bubbles up. It’s true -- we’re skeptical of your intentions, lady.

It seems like you are missing the attention Josh used to give you, and now you’re jealous of the girl that shares his feelings. All eyes are on her, not you, and you're completely irked. So instead of being happy for your best friend, you mistake your boyfriend/girlfriend envy for a crush on Josh. We say, find another guy to fall for. He already gave you a chance, and you turned it down. Be a good friend, and let him enjoy his new relationship.


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