Don't: Date to Compete

We're really hoping that the relationship between Paris Hilton and Benji Madden is true love. But we can't beat that nagging feeling that perhaps Paris is just dating Benji for publicity -- and to be like her BFF, Nicole! Because though she's been described as "sweet," Paris is also known to be a tad two-faced with her friends (remember how she stole Stavros Niarchos from former pal, Mary-Kate Olsen?). We're just sayin'… The moral of the story is that you shouldn't compare your love life with your friends' love lives! You'll be waaay happier going at your own speed, and doing your own thing. Trust us.

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