Reese Witherspoon and Jake Gyllenhaal

Breaking up and getting back together seems to be a pattern with Reese and Jake! But it's a lesson that many couples just can't seem to learn. Listen up, girls -- if you guys broke up, think long and hard before you make the commitment again. 'Cause there's a reason why you two split up in the first place! In the case of Reese and Jake, sources say she was the one responsible for breaking things off (both times), because she was afraid she couldn't balance her fam and a relationship. But we personally think she's still getting over Ryan Phillipe! Oh, if only we could have a one-on-one with our fave girl, Reese.

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