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Meet the Wise Guy. He’s got advice to give and questions to answer, so send in any and all problems concerning the opposite sex. What makes him so qualified? He’s been a boy his whole life, so he knows exactly what’s going through your crush, boyfriend, or best-guy-friend’s dumbhead. Ask him!


I like this one guy, but I already have a boyfriend. I'm not sure if the guy I have a crush on likes me, so if I break up with my boyfriend and then find out the other guy doesn't like me, I'm screwed. Plus, my crush and my boyfriend are friends. What if they get in a fight because of me?

Well, I have some good news -- you probably won't have to worry about your boyfriend and his friend fighting over you because if your crush is a decent guy, he won't have anything to do with you. Most people understand that it's a bad move to get romantically involved with their friends' significant others (both past and present). It can create drama, it can give a person a bad reputation, and the bond of friendship is a lot more important than some short-lived fling. (Guys have a nice little phrase to sum this up: "Bro's before ho's.") But hey, if this crush of yours is a punk, who has no problem stabbing a friend in the back, you two could be a perfect match.


I get the feeling that you're really not all that into your boyfriend. If that's the case, you should break up with him. Honestly, there are so many guys in the world, there's no reason for you to be lame and go after your boyfriend's friends. You might have to be single for a little while (gasp!) to find that special guy, but it'll be worth it in the end. Remember, karma's a killer. If you live your life as someone who's untrustworthy, you just might end up with a dude who can't keep his hands off your friends.

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