We asked: "Why do guys say they want to be friend but never mean it?"

He said: "Once you've hooked up with her, you've crossed a line, and there's no coming back. Do guys really need another girl as a friend if they aren't going to hookup with again? When guys say that (and mean it), things can get a little awkward for both of them when they actually hang out. And plus, it's basically the easiest way to make her stop crying."