Are you turned off by a girl who's a wallflower at a party?

He said: Certainly. I need a girl who is outgoing and friendly to everyone, not just towards her friends or me. She needs to be able to walk around on her own, find her own fun and be friendly with my friends on her own (one of the best things ever). The worst kind of relationship you could ever get yourself into is one with a girl who you need to babysit at a party. At a party you want to have some fun on your own, just as you want her to do the same. She needs to be involved.