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Jamal J.
New York

We asked: "What would make you NOT ask a girl out on a second date?"

He said: A total deal breaker for me would be if the girl is really shy and quiet on the date. Of course there will be awkward moments on a date and, especially on a first date, there are bound to be awkward silences too, but I feel uncomfortable when I have to do all the talking. It makes me think that you're not that into me. But the reverse is also true; a girl who talks too much and is a motor-mouth seems full of herself and not so into me. So, the conversation needs to flow and needs to be equal. Otherwise, I won't want to take the girl out again.

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